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Full moon fever and other tales of obscurity.....

Big debate today @ work was is the full moon tomorrow or friday. Apparently the "wrong" (re: mine) calender said tomorrow and all the "right" ones said friday. Fine, then friday it is. A half hour of my workday blurred into this debate and examing calenders. Oh the joy.

The venus part of the office (myself and my work partner) spent another 40 minutes easedropping on the gaggle of men complaining about their wives. I so wish I had a built in recorder at these moments. You know half way across town the OTHER side of the story is being told by their significant others with a whole different spin. BTW I emailed my significant other today and informed him HE was in charge of dinner. His email reply was we were having "corned beef hash and chili with beans bah hahaha". Funny, real funny.

So the other thing, today was bonus time. I love and fear bonus time. We don't get a large bonus but the fear is everyone else will be handed an envelope and I will sit there empty handed. In keeping with the chaotic nature of the beast some people WERE handed out their's while we (let's not call us "losers" per say) sat there with tense smiles on our faces. Our BOSS boss was out today and apprently the handing out of the golden tickets, er I mean envelopes can not be done with out Boss X. I think I am worried because other areas in our department got gift cards and lunch at the Cheesecake Factory while my boss um splurged & sent me a picture Christmas card to my home. Yeah that sends you scurrying to Monster.com

On a personal note T and I have been trying to be a little more open and trying to keep the lines of communication going. It's tough. This relationship business is hard. For the first year of marriage it drove him NUTS I splatered water around the bathroom sink and left it. Hey it's water, it'll dry. It drove me nuts that he never asked "How was your day" when he got home. He vented about his and then expected me to join in. I wanted to hear those words. So we are talking more. I do think it's a good sign I still get all fluttery when I see his car there when I get home.

Reasons T. is a good guy:

1. He loves me
2. He makes sure I get up in the morning
3. He is very good with budgeting.
4. He will tell myself and the pups to get in the car we are going for a 1) ride in the country 2) a Starbucks run
5. He is good to his Mom
6. He is good to my Mom
7. He learned to accept water splashed on the sink and just quietly wipe it up if I forget
8. He downloads songs he thinks I might like
9. He is very kind and good to animals.
10. He makes it known he is ok with us not being able to have kids.
11. He protects me and wants only good things for me
12. He is comfortable in his beliefs (religious)
13. He is willing to listen to thers beliefs and not judge.
14. Somehow he always has the tip money while I am fumbling and muttering "no singles"